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From: Tim Warlick <twarlick@...>
Date: Tue, 10 Apr 2001 18:04:23 -0500
Dear Barry and other Cu listers,

It's great to hear some discussion from brethren in Christ on this Christian
unity (Cu) list again!  It's been quiet here for a long time!  As for
myself, I've been lately involved in discussions on another mailing list
related to Cu, and although I'm about to wrap that effort up, I'm still
working on a kind of summary statement of what I learned from those many
discussions.  So for me personally, it may be a little time yet before I can
properly hold up my end of a conversation here on this Cu list, and in the
meantime I hope you will bear with me for a time while I work mostly on that
summary, which I plan to post here as soon as I finish it.

But your comments here, Barry, are along similar lines of thought as I am
currently working on, so it helps me tremendously to hear on these matters
from other brethren in Christ, such as yourself and Larry.  I've done a lot
of writing over the years about the subject of Cu, and the vast majority of
it has consisted of just stating what I think the Bible says, with quoted
Bible references, and many times, simply stating what has been explained to
me about what the Bible says, specifically by other Christians on this Cu
list.

I have often heard it said that you don't know what you really think until
you put it in writing, and I would add that you often don't know what to
write till you either hear it from some other Christian, or till you try it
out on some other Christian.and I believe there is scripture that generally
bears this out, expressed as the need to be led by the Holy Spirit in one
another.

1 Corinthians 12:21  And the eye cannot say unto the hand, I have no need of
thee: nor again the head to the feet, I have no need of you.
Ephesians 4:7  But unto every one of us is given grace according to the
measure of the gift of Christ.
Ephesians 4:12  For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the
ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
13  Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the
Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the
fulness of Christ:
1 Peter 4:11  If any man speak, let him speak as the oracles of God; if any
man minister, let him do it as of the ability which God giveth: that God in
all things may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom be praise and
dominion for ever and ever. Amen.

I just hope every Christian on this list feels welcome to comment, no matter
what they have to say.  Sometimes it's hard to sustain conversations on this
list, which I think is primarily because we just don't often get riled here,
by reason of our deep interest in seeking Christian unity together, and
because we discuss it in ways intended to allow the Holy Spirit to work
through us in His word.  This Cu list has been that way for a long time now.

James 3:17  But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable,
gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without
partiality, and without hypocrisy.

Unfortunately, we Christians generally seem to work much harder venting our
anger (as in arguments on other lists) than we work together in peaceable,
Godly conversation to build up the body of Christ, endeavoring to keep the
unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace, and our efforts at peace in the
body of Christ ought not to be so relatively meager.  In any event, I'm glad
to hear some good discussion here, Barry, and I hope all on the list will
find a way to contribute their comments, so we can hear from everyone on the
list and keep all good conversations going.

Philippians 4:8  Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever
things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure,
whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there
be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

I happen to agree, Barry, with most all of what you say here, though I may
differ in some details.  Still, even in the points I may disagree in, I am
very, very glad you brought these issues up, and I think this area of
discussion is *vitally* important to the purpose of furthering unity in the
body of Christ.  I believe this stuff is very important, so I am herewith
commenting on it at length, and I hope every Christian on this list will
comment as well.  This, imo, simply means *life* to the body of Christ.

If I had to summarize what I believe the most important basis of Christian
unity is, it would be this:
unity of love between all who believe in Jesus to repentance.  Or in other
words, God is telling us all to just quit sinning, and serve Jesus; or to
quit serving our own flesh, and serve the body of Christ instead; to quit
serving the flesh of our own bodies, which is the flesh that turns to dust,
and serve instead the eternal flesh of the body of Christ, which, united
together in Jesus, in the body of Christ, is the eternal home of God living
within us believers all, and walking among us.

Hebrews 8:1  Now of the things which we have spoken this is the sum: We have
such an high priest, who is set on the right hand of the throne of the
Majesty in the heavens;
2  A minister of THE SANCTUARY, AND OF THE TRUE TABERNACLE, which the Lord
pitched, and not man.
Hebrews 8:10  For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of
Israel after those days, saith the Lord; I will PUT MY LAWS INTO THEIR MIND,
AND WRITE THEM IN THEIR HEARTS: and I will be to them a God, and they shall
be to me a people:
11  And they shall not teach every man his neighbour, and every man his
brother, saying, Know the Lord: for all shall know me, from the least to the
greatest.
12  For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and
their iniquities will I remember no more.
13  In that he saith, A new covenant, he hath made the first old. Now that
which decayeth and waxeth old is ready to vanish away.
Hebrews 9:1  Then verily the FIRST COVENANT had also ordinances of divine
service, and a WORLDY SANCTUARY.
Hebrews 9:11  But Christ being come an high priest of good things to come,
by a greater and MORE PERFECT TABERNACLE, NOT MADE WITH HANDS, that is to
say, not of this building;
John 14:23  Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep
my words: and my Father will love him, and WE WILL COME UNTO HIM, AND MAKE
OUR ABODE WITH HIM.
Luke 17:21  Neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, THE
KINGDOM OF GOD IS WITHIN YOU.
1 Corinthians 3:16  Know ye not that YE ARE THE TEMPLE OF GOD, and that the
Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
1 Peter 2:5  Ye also, AS LIVELY STONES, ARE BUILT UP A SPIRITUAL HOUSE, an
holy priesthood, to OFFER UP SPIRITUAL SACRIFICES, acceptable to God by
Jesus Christ.
John 15:12  This is my commandment, That ye love one another, AS I HAVE
LOVED YOU.
13  Greater love hath no man than this, THAT A MAN LAY DOWN HIS LIFE for his
friends.
1 John 3:16  Hereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his
life for us: and WE OUGHT TO LAY DOWN OUR LIVES FOR THE BRETHREN.

(Pls. Note, CAPITALIZATION EMPHASIS MINE; capitalization is the form of
emphasis I use because it survives "text only" type emails.)

In this sense, the call to Christian unity is the culmination of the
strongly, Biblically worded dichotomy between the carnal and the spiritual,
the mortal vs. the eternal, which is clearly referred to over and over again
in the Bible, and to which, I think, you, Barry, well refer in your
comments:

> There are many scriptures saying we should not have anything to do with
the
> world for if we do so we will come away tainted by the association. God is
> calling even now, speaking of Babylon, "come out of her my people", and
> those who have heeded this call are already saved.

Romans 8:4  That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who
walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
5  For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but
they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.
6  For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life
and peace.
7  Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to
the law of God, neither indeed can be.
8  So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
9  But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit
of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is
none of his.

And I agree with you, Barry, that the man in that referenced article from
"Faith Today" did somewhat misuse that particular Bible quote when he said,
"all of us ARE sinners and fall short of the glory of God".

What the Bible says is that we all HAVE sinned, and the tense is important:

Romans 3:20  Therefore by the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be
justified in his sight: for by the law is the knowledge of sin.
21  But now the righteousness of God without the law is manifested, being
witnessed by the law and the prophets;
22  Even the righteousness of God which is by faith of Jesus Christ unto all
and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference:
23  For all HAVE sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
24  Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in
Christ Jesus:
25  Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood,
to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past,
through the forbearance of God;
26  To declare, I say, at this time his righteousness: that he might be
just, and the justifier of him which believeth in Jesus.

On the other hand, Jesus tells us to expect to forgive many times in a day,
if necessary.  So it appears that although we have sinned in the past, and
that our sins are far behind us and forgotten by God, so that we can walk
victorious lives in Christ,  nevertheless we may well be expected to sin in
the future and need to forgive one another, and to be forgiven ourselve, on
a continual basis.

I think that's a good definition of living the life of faith in Jesus.  We'
re perfect now because we're forgiven in Him, and as soon as we learn of any
other sin, we repent of that, too, and continue in our walk with the Lord,
who continually, lovingly corrects His children, as we continually, lovingly
forgive each other, rebuking only as necesary out of love.

Romans 8:33  Who shall lay any thing to the charge of God's elect? It is God
that justifieth.
34  Who is he that condemneth? It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is
risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh
intercession for us.
35  Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or
distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?
36  As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are
accounted as sheep for the slaughter.
37  Nay, in all these things WE ARE MORE THAN CONQUERORS THROUGH HIM that
loved us.
Hebrews 12:6  For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every
son whom he receiveth.
7  If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son
is he whom the father chasteneth not?
8  But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye
bastards, and not sons.
9  Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we
gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the
Father of spirits, and live?
Luke 17:3  Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee,
REBUKE HIM; and if he repent, forgive him.
4  And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and SEVEN TIMES IN
A DAY turn again to thee, saying, I REPENT, THOU SHALT FORGIVE HIM.
Ephesians 4:29  Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but
THAT WHICH IS GOOD TO THE USE OF EDIFYING, that it may minister grace unto
the hearers.
1 Corinthians 13:1  Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels,
and have not CHARITY, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
Ephesians 4:32  And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, FORGIVING one
another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Colossians 3:13  Forbearing one another, and FORGIVING one another, if any
man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.

Finally, Barry, I have one more comment about the "glory of God", which I
think has very, very special significance for those of us who truly seek
Christian unity, as I believe you and I do, and, I think most of the people
on this list.

Jesus said that He's already given us Christians, being in this world though
not of it, the "glory of God", for the purpose of Christian unity.

John 17:11  And now I am no more in the world, but THESE ARE IN THE WORLD,
and I come to thee. Holy Father, keep through thine own name those whom thou
hast given me, that they may be one, as we are.
John 17:22  And the GLORY WHICH THOU GAVEST ME I HAVE GIVEN THEM; that they
may be one, even as we are one:

This is the exact same word, "glory", which Jesus spoke of regarding
miracles worked on this earth, when he raised Lazarus from the dead.

John 11:4  When Jesus heard that, he said, This sickness is not unto death,
but for the GLORY OF GOD, that the Son of God might be glorified thereby.
John 11:40  Jesus saith unto her, Said I not unto thee, that, if thou
wouldest believe, thou shouldest see the GLORY OF GOD?

So, it is my strong belief, that in this sense, we members of the body of
Christ, Christians all, not only HAVE sinned, but in large part, CONTINUE
NOW IN SIN, to whatever extent each of us NOW fails to lay down our lives
for each other in the body of Christ, having failed to as yet fulfill the
new commandment of Jesus to unite in love together in Him, and failing to
show to the world that love for all God's children who believe in Jesus to
repentance, regardless of Christian group or denomination.   Imo, only if
we've done all Jesus has commanded, then only do we serve Him fully, at
least promoting ourselves to the position of unprofitable servants, by
finally serving the whole body of Christ in love and forgiveness of one
another, all who repent and claim the blood of Jesus.  And imo, the day
certainly soon comes when we shall, united together in Him, work miracles in
His name, which the world cannot fail to see as being worked by the
disciples of Him who was sent by God.

John 13:35  By this SHALL ALL MEN KNOW that ye are MY DISCIPLES, IF ye have
love one to another.
John 17:23  I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one;
and THAT THE WORLD MAY KNOW THAT THOU HAST SENT ME, and HAST LOVED THEM, AS
THOU HAST LOVED ME.
John 17:24  Father, I will that they also, whom thou hast given me, be with
me where I am; THAT THEY MAY BEHOLD MY GLORY, which thou hast given me: for
thou lovedst me before the foundation of the world.

God loved all His children before the foundation of the world.  And Jesus
has always been there, abiding in God's love for all His children,
regardless of Christian denomination or group, waiting for the fullness of
times, for us to finally come along and obey Him in the new commandment of
Jesus.

Luke 17:3  Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee,
rebuke him; AND IF HE REPENT, FORGIVE HIM.
4  And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in
a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.
5  And the apostles said unto the Lord, INCREASE OUR FAITH.
6  And the Lord said, If ye had faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye might
say unto this sycamine tree, Be thou plucked up by the root, and be thou
planted in the sea; and it should obey you.
7  But which of you, having a servant plowing or feeding cattle, will say
unto him by and by, when he is come from the field, Go and sit down to meat?
8  And will not rather say unto him, Make ready wherewith I may sup, and
gird thyself, and SERVE ME, TILL I HAVE EATEN AND DRUNKEN, AND AFTERWARD
THOU SHALT EAT AND DRINK?
9  Doth he thank that servant because he did the things that were commanded
him? I trow not.
10  So likewise ye, WHEN YE SHALL HAVE DONE ALL THOSE THINGS COMMANDED YOU,
say, We are unprofitable servants: we have done that which was our duty to
do.
John 15:12  THIS IS MY COMMANDMENT, That ye love one another, as I have
loved you.
Ephesians 1:9  Having MADE KNOWN TO US THE MYSTERY OF HIS WILL, according to
his good pleasure which he hath purposed in himself:
10  That in the dispensation of the fulness of times he might GATHER
TOGETHER IN ONE ALL THINGS IN CHRIST, both which are in heaven, and which
are on earth; even in him:
1 John 5:14  And THIS IS THE CONFIDENCE THAT WE HAVE IN HIM, that, if we ask
any thing ACCORDING TO HIS WILL , he heareth us:
15  And if we know that he hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have
the petitions that we desired of him.
16  If any man see his brother sin a sin which is not unto death, he shall
ask, and he shall give him life for them that sin not unto death. There is a
sin unto death: I do not say that he shall pray for it.
17  All unrighteousness is sin: and there is a sin not unto death.
Hebrews 3:6  But Christ as a son over his own house; WHOSE HOUSE ARE WE, IF
WE HOLD FAST THE CONFIDENCE and the rejoicing of the hope firm unto the end.
1 John 3:21  Beloved, IF OUR HEART CONDEMN US NOT, THEN HAVE WE CONFIDENCE
TOWARD.
22  And whatsoever we ask, we receive of him, BECAUSE WE KEEP HIS
COMMANDMENTS, and do those things that are pleasing in his sight.
23  And THIS IS HIS COMMANDMENT, That we should BELIEVE on the name of his
Son Jesus Christ, AND LOVE ONE ANOTHER, as he gave us commandment.
24  And he that keepeth his commandments dwelleth in him, and he in him. And
hereby we know that he abideth in us, by the Spirit which he hath given us.

That Spirit, is the Spirit of love for all Christians, of all Christian
denominations and groups, which Spirit within each of us Christians is the
Spirit of Christ, Himself, who is Himself, and always has been, the love of
God the Father, for all God's children, whosoever believeth in Jesus to
repentance.

Love in Jesus,
Tim

----- Original Message -----
From: "Barry" <btayl@...>
To: <christianunity@...>
Sent: Saturday, April 07, 2001 11:32 PM
Subject: Re: [CU] Article: about marriage, sexuality and spirituality


> Dear Tim,
> I do not believe that those who are saved are still sinners and fall short
> of the glory of God. Before we were saved we were sinners and fell short
of
> God's glory. The reason why we must not judge the people in the world is
for
> that exact reason, that we were sinners, who God decided to save. Our
> salvation was not for anything we had done, it was simply by God's grace,
> through our belief that God can save me. Our judgement of others in the
> world is self righteousness, believing we through some form of our own
works
> are saved. If we judge others in the world we are judging ourselves
because
> we also belonged to the world before we were saved, but God judged us
> righteous through Christ's righteousness, and this imputation through the
> working of the Holy Spirit in ones life, brings mercy and love, not
> judgement and hate.
>
> There are many scriptures saying we should not have anything to do with
the
> world for if we do so we will come away tainted by the association. God is
> calling even now, speaking of Babylon, "come out of her my people", and
> those who have heeded this call are already saved. To say that I am a
sinner
> who is saved argues against the many many good people in the world whose
> deeds speak volumes, but their allegiance speaks idols. How can those, who
> say I am a sinner who is saved, be any different from the rest of the
world
> who are sinners unsaved. Jesus came to save me from my sin, (Mat. 1:21)
and
> not save me still in my sin.
>
> To argue that a homosexual is welcome as a child of God, goes against too
> many scriptures, both old and new testament, to hold any water. A
homosexual
> who changes his spots is certainly welcome into God's Kingdom. The
criteria
> for entering the Kingdom of God IS, "You must be born anew." (John 3:3) A
> person who is born again through the Spirit of God shakes off these old
evil
> habits of the world, and starts to take on righteous habits as the Spirit
> leads. A murderer cannot enter the Kingdom, neither a thief or a person
who
> bears false witness, or one who covets, so why would a homosexual have
> special treatment? When one is born again one takes on the culture that is
> exclusively God's so that the old man of sin does not rule ones life
> anymore.
>
> Barry
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Tim Warlick <cuprayer@...>
> To: <christianunity@...>
> Sent: Thursday, March 22, 2001 4:56 AM
> Subject: [CU] Article: about marriage, sexuality and spirituality
>
>
> > Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,
> >
> > Some of this article deals with some of the same subjects of recent
posts
> on
> > this list.
> >
> > Indeed, conservative Christians, who articulate their belief that God
> calls
> > Christians to love everyone but not actions that scripture calls sinful,
> > complain that they are accused of bigotry and inciting hate crimes. "We
> are
> > to love people who are sinners -- all of us are sinners and fall short
of
> > the glory of God -- but you are to be discriminating about what behavior
> you
> > accept," says Bill Merrell, vice president for convention relations of
the
> > Executive Committee of the Southern Baptist Convention. "To claim that
> leads
> > to hatred is a form of hate speech itself."
> > Gays and lesbians, on the other hand, argue that too often conservative
> > Christians use the pulpit to paint homosexuals as perverted and beyond
the
> > reach of God's love, language they say provides justification to harm
> them.
> >
> > http://www.faithtoday.com/livinggaydebate0600.htm
> >
> > Interesting article recognizes the importance of the issue.
> >
> > Love in Jesus,
> > Tim
> >
> >
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