~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ NOTES FROM THE VALLEY - July 14, 2000 "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil for you are with me." Psalm 23. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ TOPIC: THE ROAD BACK I'm sure most of you have noticed the words from the 23rd Psalm in the header of each edition of Notes from the Valley. That Psalm is the foundation scripture of this ministry. Like the Psalm says, this life is a great deal like a journey on foot through a shadowy valley. Because we are on foot, we are vulnerable. And the magnitude of the sinfulness around us and within us is so immense, that it towers over us and casts a giant shadow across the entire valley. Alone and on foot, it's easy for us to be overcome by that darkness; to become confused and lost; to be overwhelmed by fear. But we were never meant to make this journey alone. I used to forget that quite often. Then a friend of ours got into some trouble that turned his life upside down. He asked for our help from jail. Mail became our primary means of communications and Psalm 23 was the primary focus of the notes we sent to him and his family. I'm not sure who learned more, them or us, but there was never any doubt that it was our Father doing the teaching. Each year, around the time our ministry began, I like to go back and revisit the lessons we learned through those first "Notes" to a hurting friend. I think most of us like to dream about a better life filled with bigger, better, nicer things. That's not a bad thing. But sometimes, we become so focused on achieving those dreams that we fail to appreciate and be thankful for what we already have. And we fail to take advantage of or respond to the opportunities that God places before of us. Instead of focusing on Him, we get wrapped up in ourselves, what we want, and what we must do to get it. We believe that if we can only possess that bigger house, that nicer car, that perfect mate, we'll be happy and fulfilled. But when our desire is achieved, we find neither. So we pick a new target and strike out to possess it. Like some rebellious child, we become either too proud or too scared to admit we're lost. So we refuse to stop and ask for directions. We blindly press forward, often stepping on, over, or going around the people that God places in our path. People meant to be a blessing to us or sent to give us the opportunity to be a blessing to others. Likewise, we fail to see the beauty God has created all around us. Natural wonders ranging from the microscopic to the majestic. Monuments to His love for us. Reminders of His closeness to us. But we're just too busy to see. We have no time for Him. We have no time for each other. We strive, but we fail. We journey, but we get nowhere. The Book of Genesis says that God created us in His image and likeness. Ever wonder why? Well, the Bible also tells us that God is love. And it's my belief that the very nature of love requires that it be shared - given to and accepted by someone within the same species. That last point is important. Loving a pet is one thing. But loving a family member is something else entirely. God created us like Himself so we could share a family love relationship with Him. And only in that relationship is there the fulfillment of who He is - the Father - and who we were created to be - His children. We see that loving relationship in the Bible's account of the evening walks God shared with Adam and Eve through the Garden of Eden. The garden He so lovingly created for them. He sent His son Jesus to the cross so He could share those walks (that kind of relationship) with us again. He's been waiting for you in that garden ever since. So, how do we find our way out of this dark valley and back to the garden? We have to take the time to see the wonders of God's handiwork as evidenced in nature and in each other. We have to recognize them as expressions of His love for us and His longing to be with us. We need to stop focusing on tomorrow and where we think we need to be long enough to discover all the joy and fulfillment God has lovingly provided for us in today. If you want to find the road back to Eden, just ask your Father to share a walk with you each day. Talk. Listen. Love. Invite others to join you. And enjoy. We remain His grateful children and your brother and sister in Christ, Steve & Cathy Hall LIVING BETWEEN STEPS (Barbara Brown Taylor in Fresh Illustrations for Preaching & Teaching) A university professor tells of being invited to speak at a military base one December and there meeting an unforgettable soldier named Ralph. Ralph had been sent to meet him at the airport. After they had introduced themselves, they headed toward the baggage claim. As they walked down the concourse, Ralph kept disappearing. Once to help an older woman whose suitcase had fallen open. Once to lift two toddlers up to where they could see Santa Claus, again to give directions to someone who was lost. Each time he came back with a smile on his face. "Where did you learn to be like that?" the professor asked. "Oh," Ralph said, "during the war, I guess." He then told the professor about his tour of duty in Vietnam, how it was his job to clear mine fields, how he watched his friends blow up before his eyes, one after another. "I learned to live between steps," he said. "I never knew whether the next one would be my last, so I learned to get everything I could out of the moment between when I picked up my foot and when I put it down again. Every step I took was a whole new world, and I guess I've been that way ever since." The abundance of our lives is not determined by how long we live, but by how well we live. IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER (Author Erma Bombeck) I would have talked less and listened more. I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained and the sofa faded. I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace. I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth. I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed. I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage. I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains. I would have cried and laughed less while watching television - and more while watching life. I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband. I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day. I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle. When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner." There would have been more "I love you's".. more "I'm sorry's"... but mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it... live it...and never give it back. START OVER (Received from Jim's Gems - Author Unknown) When you've trusted Jesus and walked His way When you've felt His hand lead you day by day But your steps now take you another way, start over. When you've made your plans and they've gone awry When you've tried your best and there's no more try When you've failed yourself and you don't know why, start over. When you've told your friends what you plan to do When you've trusted them and they didn't come through And now you're all alone and it's up to you, start over. When you've failed your kids and they're grown and gone When you've done your best but it's turned out wrong And now your grandchildren have come along, start over. When you've prayed to God so you'll know His will When you've prayed and prayed and you don't know still When you want to stop cause you've had your fill, start over. When you think you're finished and want to quit When you've bottomed out in life's deepest pit When you've tried and tried to get out of it, start over. When the year has been long and successes few When December comes and you're feeling blue God gives a January just for you, start over. Starting over means "Victories Won" Starting over means "A Race Well Run" Starting over means "The Lords' Will Done" Don't just sit there....... START OVER. GUIDANCE (Received from Nellie Hicks - Author Unknown) When I meditated on the word guidance, I kept seeing "dance" at the end of the word. I remember reading that doing God's will is a lot like dancing. When two people try to lead, nothing feels right. The movement doesn't flow with the music, and everything is quite uncomfortable and jerky. When one person relaxes and lets the other lead, both bodies begin to flow with the music. One gives gentle cues, perhaps with a nudge to the back or by pressing lightly in one direction or another. It's as if two become one body, moving beautifully. The dance takes surrender, willingness, and attentiveness from one person and gentle guidance and skill from the other. My eyes drew back to the word guidance. When I saw "G," I thought of God, followed by "u" and "i." God, "u" and "i" dance. God, you, and I dance. This statement is what guidance means to me. As I lowered my head, I became willing to trust that I would get guidance about my life. Once again, I became willing to let God lead. A SPIDER'S WEB (Received from DailyEncouragers - Author Thomas A. Bennett) A young soldier found himself in a terrible battle during the Scottish Reformation. The enemy was soundly defeating this young man's army. He and his comrades found themselves hastily retreating from the battle field in defeat, running away in fear of their very lives. The enemy gave chase. This young man ran hard and fast, full of fear and desperation, soon found himself cut off from his comrades in arms. He eventually came upon a rocky ledge containing a cave. Knowing the enemy was close behind, and that he was exhausted from the chase, chose to hide there. After he crawled in, he feel to his face in the darkness, desperately crying to God to save him and protect him from his enemies. He also made a bargain with God, one which I (and perhaps you too?) have made before. He promised that if God saved him, he would serve Him for the remainder of his days. When he looked up from his despairing plea for help, he saw a spider beginning to weave its web at the entrance to the cave. As he watched the delicate threads being slowly drawn across the mouth of the cave, the young soldier pondered its irony. He thought, "I asked God for protection and deliverance, and he sent me a spider instead. How can a spider save me?" His heart was hardened, knowing the enemy would soon discover his hiding place and kill him. Soon he did hear the sound of his enemies, who were now scouring the area looking for those in hiding. One soldier with a gun slowly walked up to the cave's entrance. As the young man crouched in the darkness, hoping to surprise the enemy in a last-minute desperate attempt to save his own life, he felt his heart pounding wildly out of control. As the enemy cautiously moved forward to enter the cave, he came upon the spider's web, which by now was completely strung across the opening. He backed away and called out to a comrade, "There can't be anyone in here. They would have had to break this spider's web to enter the cave. Let's move on." Years later, this young man, who made good his promise by becoming a preacher and evangelist, wrote about that ordeal. What he observed has stood by me in times of trouble, especially during those times when everything seemed impossible. He wrote: "Where God is, a spider's web is as a stone wall. Where God is not, a stone wall is as a spider's web." Is something going on in your life right now that is really bothering you? Perhaps it seems so bad that you are paralyzed by fear. You don't know what to do. Do you ever feel you are in the darkness, facing what seems impossible, wondering (or maybe not) if God even cares? If you are, I am here to tell you that God does care . . . . more than you can imagine right now. And God is most definitely in control. He specializes in the impossible. Cry out to Him. He hears you and desires to give you the very best He has to offer. Don't try to fight your own battles. It's a hopelessly lost cause without Him. IF YOU WANT ME TO (Author Ginny Owens) The pathway is broken And the signs are unclear And I don't know the reason Why you brought me here But just because you love me The way that you do I'm gonna walk through the valley If you want me to No, I'm not who I was When I took my first step And I'm clinging to the promise You're not through with me yet So if all of these trials Bring me closer to you Then I will walk through the fire If you want me to And it may not be the way I would have chosen When you lead me through a world That's not my home But you never said It would be easy You only said I'd never go alone So when the whole world turns against me And I'm all by myself And I can't hear you answer My cries for help I'll remember the suffering That your love put you through And I will walk through the darkness If you want me to 'Cause when I cross over Jordan I'm gonna sing, gonna shout Gonna look into your eyes and see You never let me down So take me on the pathway That leads me home to you And I will walk through the valley If you want me to Yes, I will walk through the valley If you want me to ________________________________________________ Copyright © 1998-2000 by Stephen J. Hall - Weekly letters of encouragement to Christians written by Stephen J. Hall unless otherwise indicated. Notes from the Valley and Humor from the Valley are never intended to offend anyone. They're meant only to brighten your day and encourage you along the way. Most of "Notes" and "Humor" are a collection of items provided to me by subscribers and friends. Credit is given to both the contributor and to the true author, where known. If you are blessed by them, please feel free to make copies and pass them along to others. If you have something you'd like to contribute to a future edition or would like to ask us a question or make a comment, please contact us at: sossteve@... ________________________________________________ Your love, God, is my song, and I'll sing it! I'm forever telling everyone how faithful you are. I'll never quit telling the story of your love - how you built the cosmos and guaranteed everything in it. Your love has always been our lives foundation, your fidelity has been the roof over our world. (Psalm 89:1-3 The Message)