[faithandlife] The Risks of Bareback Sex

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From: "charles scott" <charlesrscott@...>
Date: Thu, 26 Jun 2003 14:07:34 -0400
Brothers+

The argument that "the right to privacy supercedes your right to exist" seems to be the point of the Supreme Court decision today.

Below is a 5-year-old argument by a person involved in the fight against Aids, who apparently accepts the right to privacy argument and extols it.  

Three lines from his argument against "bare backing" seem to me to invalidate his argument that we shouldn't attempt to restrain harmful sexual activity by law. 

He says in regard to "bare backing": 

(1)  "The harm that such deliberate activity may cause to the parties themselves as well as the consequences of such behavior on the public good may well supercede the individual rights of those engaging in such behavior." 

(2)   ". . .the form of the behavior which should not be destructive on the social order."

(3)  ". . .failure to realize that sexual freedom, like all other freedoms, is not absolute. Freedom
without responsibility is anarchy."   

Those statements could have been used by the 5 "conservatives" in the Supreme Court to justify uphold law and ancient tradition with a view to protecting the body politic.  Not too long ago I printed an article authored by a lesbian lady who was lamenting the death of a generation of her gay friends. The burden of her message was that the Bible fundamentalists were right and that sodomy is a deadly evil.  She admitted this through tears in midlife.  That which is being called freedom and a right to privacy is anarchy that the author below deplores while saying that sodomy is ok.  Go figure.

Charles+
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The Risks of Bareback Sex 

International Association of Physicians in AIDS Care; Conference Summary - June 29, 1998
Journal
Gordon Nary
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Ellen Terry’s often quoted and misattributed remark "I don’t care what you do as long as you
don’t do it in the street and frighten the horses" could well be the cornerstone of an enlightened
society’s policy on sexual behavior. Adults should be free to engage in any form of consensual
sex when such freedom is tempered by the privacy of the behavior (not in the streets) and the
form of the behavior which should not be destructive on the social order (frighten the horses).

These two qualifications on sexual freedom have to date been reasonable. For example, most
communities have laws prohibiting public sex. While such laws may deter some from engaging in
public sex, to others the risk of being arrested becomes the dominant erotic rush. The eroticism
of the risk of being arrested often dominates the sexual experience of some in such a way that
the risk becomes a fetish. The erotic pleasure of the fetish becomes more intense than the sexual
act itself.

There is a more pernicious form of high-risk sex called "barebacking" which may threaten the
social order. Barebacking is the latest sexual fetish in which the sexual act is eroticized by the
risk of becoming HIV-infected or re-infected. If advertisements on the Internet and in some gay
and other sex-oriented publications are any accurate indication, there are tens of thousands of
individuals whose sexual gratification is based on the risk of the "gift" of HIV as it is officially
termed in barebacking argot. The "gift" in some of these advertisements is often referred to in
sacramental terms as if communion with the human immunodeficiency virus is somehow parallel
to communion with God.

There have been a few voices chastising the soi-disant leaders of the AIDS and gay
communities for their failure to take appropriate leadership in reducing the popularity of
barebacking. However, leadership in general has been non-existent, possibly due to such
leaders’ failure to realize that sexual freedom, like all other freedoms, is not absolute. Freedom
without responsibility is anarchy.

The anarchy of barebacking is the possible introduction of drug-resistant strains of HIV into a
population who may not be helped by our current AIDS drug armamentarium as well as the
introduction of HIV into a population who may be unable to access AIDS drugs. Mutual
consent may not be a relevant issue. The harm that such deliberate activity may cause to the
parties themselves as well as the consequences of such behavior on the public good may well
supercede the individual rights of those engaging in such behavior. The anarchy of barebacking
has frightened at least one old horse.

The popularity of barebacking also presents challenges to physicians on whether they should
monitor their patients’ sexual practices and what they should do if they learn that their patients
practice barebacking. Our association is organizing an ad hoc committee of physicians and
ethicists to address this issue.

Our silence on the anarchy of barebacking may well result in efforts to increase criminalization of
such behavior. While attempts to criminalize sexual behavior may appear to some to be a
reasonable response for the protection of the public good, others of us realize that laws
prohibiting private behavior are never effective. There is no political system that can ever control
man’s cruelty to himself or to others.

Gordon Nary is Editor of the Journal and Executive Director of IAPAC.

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