> Forthright Magazine > http://www.forthright.net > Straight to the Cross > > > COLUMN: Reality Check > > Expectations > by Stan Mitchell > > Father: "Son, when Abraham Lincoln was your age, > he walked seven miles to school." > > Son: "Dad, when Abraham Lincoln was your age, he > was president!" > > We are usually pretty quick to see how others > should behave; we have high expectations ... for > them! We instinctively know what someone else > should do to handle their problems, and have a > blind spot for our own failures. We have cliches > for their solutions, but feel that our own > problems are "more complicated," and therefore > require our bending the rules a little. > > "Peter turned and saw the disciple whom Jesus > loved was following them...When Peter saw him, he > asked, 'Lord, what about him?' Jesus answered, 'If > I want him to remain alive until I return, what is > that to you? You must follow me" (John 21:20,22, > NIV). > > Jesus' sharp reply to Peter's query about John is > almost shocking, until you think of his final > exhortation: > > "You must follow me." > > Following Jesus is a full-time job, engaging > enormous resources of will and concentration. > Those who are engulfed in this consuming task will > have little time for setting standards for others, > or trying to control their lives. > > What was Jesus when he was your age? > > ---- > Read this article online, tell us what you think, > see who's commenting, click here: > http://forthright.antville.org/stories/845326/ > ---- > > You can help us get the word out. Here's how: > http://forthright.antville.org/stories/340415/