Moe - "(But) I would then declare that the God of this baby is a just God and it is for them to leave the child in the care of this Just God." Barry - Once again wisdom shines forth. Each of us has our beliefs we hope are grounded by God's holy Word. But the best message the parents (and other grievers) can hear is a message that focuses their attention upon the hope that we can have in the perfect sacrifice and covering that is provided through Jesus Christ our Lord. Take them where they are and lead them upward through the Good News. "...Have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ" - Romans 5:1